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20/11/2019
V: Good evening to you. We are so glad to be spending this evening with you and for your continued availability and invitation to us. We would like to talk for a moment on a misunderstanding which is currently quite diffuse in the minds of the people of your planet including those who enjoy thinking of themselves as one who knows more of the truth of what is. Some that you call on the spiritual path or philosophers. For this misunderstanding is proposed to you repeatedly and consistently on a minute by minute basis and is so familiar to you that it has become part of who you believe yourself to be.
We are talking of the idea of good versus evil. As you may imagine from our previous conversations we do not hold in our space of consciousness the concept of evil for we are able to see a broader perspective without judgement of the actions of any and all. We do know however that upon your plane of experiencing there are beings and actions that you are less preferring. Things that go against the very fiber of your being. Things that are horrific or that you see as such and so we do not discount or disregard that there are these emotions tied with these circumstances. However, we would like to propose a clarification that the battle..if it were a battle..you are choosing to wage is not that of good versus evil and instead that of oneness versus separation.
In any situation that you can look upon and claim to be wrong and claim to be evil you will see there is a common thread of separation underlying that action. A common thread of separation underlying your reaction to that action and a distancing that takes place as one observes what is not wanted from a position of righteousness or even simply from a position of having other preference.
When one is judging anything as evil one is automatically separating oneself from that thing and in doing so adding to the stockpile of separation that created that action in the first place.
If you have within your hearts the will to see good prevail, which you all do, the only arm in your arsenery is to absorb all that is as oneself. This is the only way to cap the fire of separation and you will be tempted as information comes into your awareness to see what has been and what is and what is being revealed to you and the situations that occur as these things are being revealed to you and you will be tempted to celebrate the misfortune of those who were previously abusing power or previously causing harm to other selves or previously in a position of inflicting pain. And this is how the darkness in its very sneaky way seduces you back into separation.
We are not saying one should look upon acts that are not of one's preference and celebrate them. We are not saying that one should support anything that is against one’s beliefs or will or abuses the free will of others. What we are saying is that as you are presented with whatever you see as separate from you to remember that it is the fact that you see them as separate that allows that form of separation to continue to exist within all of consciousness. And in oneness.. which is contagious.. which is in truth all there is..all circumstance is resolved.
You are warriors not cowboys in a rodeo. And you have within you the ability to choose a completely different way of seeing the world. With that we will lighten the mood perhaps by allowing for some questions, some answers and some fun for the rest of the evening.
Host to group: If you have a question please add it to the chat. Please add a note that you would like to ask a question.
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Host to group: There is one question submitted previously.
Q01: You have spoken to us many times about our emotional guidance system and the value that it gives us. Is there anything that you would like to share with us to give us more clarity or to help us with any confusion that we may have regarding it.
V: The emotional guidance system.. as you are calling it.. when explored further than simply as a form to understand more deeply one’s beliefs and one’s direction will reveal itself to be as fundamental to your existence as your physical vessel. Each of you has a different temperament. This is not something that is learnt. This is a sensitivity element of your instrument. This sensitivity based upon what you call emotions or what are emotions… most easily defined as emotions..is organic in nature and is perfectly calibrated to aid you upon the journey you are wishing to have. Emotions are misunderstood because they are categorized into positive and negative emotions whereas there are no positive or negative emotions there are simply energies positive and negative which are delivering different information to you. You have been conditioned. .in fact taught.. which emotions are positive and which emotions are negative. This is arbitrary. It is a system that was created based upon the observation of others as opposed to based upon one’s own observation of self.
A parent teaches a child what sadness is and in the same moment explains how it needs to be fixed. A parent teaches a child what happiness is when it sees an expression of happiness and in the same moment explains which expressions of happiness are appropriate and which are not appropriate which are acceptable in that specific culture or community which are not acceptable but the being itself does not have these labels. The being simply has the ocean of energies that move through it which left on its own would be the most efficient form of emotional guidance system however because of the labels and categorization and consequences that we have attached to having feelings it is not as efficient as it would be.
In an ideal scenario a child would be left with its emotions and simply have a adult figure in their life who holds the space for them to have the emotions to last however long the emotions need to last. Emotions are not controllable. They are only suppressable or expressable. They are no more controllable than your bodily functions are. You can hold your urine in your bladder and eventually you will wet your pants. It is the same with emotions. So we are of the mind that one in the same way should not go against their physical nature. One should not go against their emotional nature. Each being is emotionally diverse and will have more or less information from their emotional guidance system at any point in their life. The fact that one needs to be taught this just shows how unfortunate the ideas behind emotions have become in your species. For other animals it is not the case. They run when they are afraid. They cry when they are sad. And they dance when they are joyous. We suggest the same for you.
Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Karissa, I believe you have a question. Would you unmute yourself?
Q: Hey! Yes. Okay. There is an idea of certain people being like ruled or they are more connected to their emotions that they are like authority so to speak.. in human design is this emotional authority.. and so they are said to be more emotional. Does this mean that they are simply more sensitive to their emotional guidance system from what you just said?
V: Yes, but not more sensitive. Simply that their system is more variant in the extremes and perhaps that they are because of conditioning not equipped to handle those extremes. Those who have less of an extreme range of emotional energy have more easily conformed to the model that has been created within your society. For your emotions are in general quite frowned upon. It is not that one is more emotional than the other. It is that the expression or the energy or the mode in which it is delivered to their brain to be expressed seems more extreme or less extreme in the other case. This is the same as some bodies being different then other bodies or there being a huge variation of bodies. One must not categorize one’s self in a space that allows them to see other self as different from self. You all have emotions. You all have a range of emotions and you all feel the exact things that you need to be feeling in order to assist you upon your journey. In the example you are asking of we do agree that for any being it is good advice to wait until there is complete clarity within them to make any choices.
Host to group: Karissa, does that answer your question?
Q: It does, thank you.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Kelly, I believe you have a question. Would you like to unmute yourself and ask?
Q02: Yes, thank you. Can you speak about how we intentionally live and think in ways that contribute to separation and how we can be more connected to oneness?
V: Yes, we do not see that you do it intentionally. It is more of a case of being unaware that you are doing it or simply not seeing that there is another option.
For you are all still very much convinced that you are within a reality that has certain framing and in as much as whatever teacher has approached you so far who has told you it does not there is still some element of you that is taking these teachings as figurative as opposed to literal.
When a teacher tells you time does not exist they are not being metaphorical they are simply telling you what is true. When a teacher is telling you that all is one they are not being poetic they are simply saying what is true and it is okay that this has not arrived deep into your subconscious at this point in time but separation exists because one believes that it needs to be there. Separation is the result of believing that one is in danger or that there is something that could be threatened in the first place. Once one realizes that their creation..their perspective of consciousness..is all that is and/or is one drop in the collective of all the perspectives in the timelines in all the parallel realities and existences and that one is the only being that could possibly ever have the experience that one is having no matter how it looks from that perspective that there are multiple and infinite other beings..if the understanding that one’s perspective is the only perspective that is possible becomes applied on a visceral level..becomes embedded in the cells of your body..you would understand that this conversation does not exist. You are creating it as the words come out of the vessel’s mouth. You would be able to ask yourself why you are creating it. You would be able to create it to be anything that you would want it to be. You would be awake in the lucid dream. The lucid dream not a lucid dream. It is the only dream. Oneness is the only understanding that can follow this awakening for you have created anything that there is and how then could it be possible for you to hate any aspect of your own creation so the starving children..the ritual human sacrifice..all of the things that you have read about..anything that you have heard about..the crimes as well as every joy and every butterfly are your creation and if you investigate that it is your creation and look deep into the why you have created any of these things you will realize you have created them for yourself to wake up not from crimes..not from evil..not from separation..but to yourself. For without the contrast..without these things that do not fit your preference..without these things that underline separation to you..without these things that you see man propose against man you would never have stopped to look at it with such a magnifying glass.
On a personal level there is of course competition, jealousy, believing that one is talking with another when talking with another all these things cause or amplify a belief in separation that already lies within you. The moment you separate yourself from another human being you are separating yourself from all of existence. You are separating yourself from God. And we are not saying go and embrace every other human being for they are all simply story lines and code arranged in a certain manner to lead you to the next big reveal. So you may discern what is applicable to you in your life at this time. We do not say roll over and stop loving yourself and let yourself be walked upon for who would be walking upon you? That would be an amplification of separation as well. Unity or oneness is love thy brother as thyself but the word as is irrelevant. Love thy brother thyself. As implies that there is separation. As if. There is no as if..they are..they are yourself. They are simply another version of you.
You can experiment..you can walk through your day and through imagination place yourself in the center of the head of the person in front of you and look out through their eyes. Just for a moment. If you have to you can go over to the other side of the room and look over their shoulder to check the angle. They are all you. We’re all you. And it’s always funny when this conversation arises and there are many individuations and they are listening to these words and they are very aware of the other individuations and saying, “Well, if I’m creating these words then what about that person? Do they have the same experience?” No! They don’t! They don’t exist! I don’t exist! You don’t exist! But for this play..we do. And what we would like for you..what you would like for you or you would not be hearing these words would be to remove yourself from the play so that you can actually play. If you could imagine the freedom that you would have if you allowed yourself to actually believe everything you’ve heard. You would be what you are which is infinite. You would be what you are which is omnipotent. And you would be what you are which is free. And it all comes from knowing your oneness. Knowing what is.
Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Kate, I believe you have a question. Would you unmute yourself and ask your question please?
Q03: Thank you very much. It’s my first time here and I’m honored to be here. I thank you for having us. My question would be is first contact with the ET’s to assist us with the expansion of understanding this oneness of the beings in the universe and if that’s the case will first contact be in this time in the next few years as people say?
V: The first contact is actually the subtitle of the book that we will be writing.
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Q: Wonderful.
V: And we would express to you that the first contact is already happening all around you. And within you. There is a sensitivity on the part of those you are referring to to make sure that nobody freaks out. And this is a delicate and paced matter. As more of you become open to contact with other beings there will be opportunity to have such contact. It will in most cases be directly related to your choice to have this contact. Your free will.
In some cases it has and will be as all interactions are with those who seem to have power over or malicious intent. For some it will seem not to be part of free will. However, we assure you that these types of interactions will be the catalyst that one required or desired to have the growth that they were wanting or are wanting. As on your level of experience and understanding at this time there are seemingly many different beings with many different intents and one could see some with good intentions and bad intentions. The same is with all of existence. The timelines are infinite. It is only your choosing what will happen. For if you take on what we said earlier about this being your creation..you are the only one who has any power over what will or will not be in what you call years. Your bird knows something of this topic.
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Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Thijs, do you have a question? Would you like to proceed? I hope I said your name properly.
Q04: Yeah it’s good. It’s good. I have a question about how attraction between two people works. Because from what I understand is when one is resting as awareness or in other words when awareness is aware of itself one is complete or feels complete and whole. So from my understanding there would be no attraction to another being because there is nothing to balance. I want you too..like.. is that true? And could you maybe tell something about how attraction works between two people?
V: In theory if your hypothesis were correct that one is only attracted to another self for the completion of self then there would be no attraction at any point in any time for any self or another self as in essence all are complete as they arrive. And so we will point first to the theory of completion as being not entirely correct. One is attracted to another self for a variety of reasons. There are..or are created within the experience the possibility of moving at a increased pace towards a lesson that one is wanting to learn and because often your lessons are on the topic of unconditional love or oneness or acceptance or non judgement it is very useful to have another self of which to practice judgement and conditions for without these one could not see at what percentage they had arrived at the understanding of what it is that they are wanting to understand. The attraction one has for another self is therefore put in placed based upon the potential that this other self has in triggering and stimulating the specific lessons that one wants to learn in relation to other self on the discovery towards oneness. Also, you have come to earth to this experience..you have created this experience in order to have the human experience which includes drama,some game playing, and fun. And during the romantic encounters or attraction or sexual encounters that you have between yourselves you have the added bonus of having this drama and fun and intensity of emotion towards your learning that you would not have if all relationships were platonic. There are physical factors. There are biological factors that will draw you towards the being that has those characteristics however that being has chosen that body many times specifically to attract you because of the potential for the two of you to get together and learn the lessons that you have pre-destined to learn together. It is a contract. Whether or not one acts upon their attraction or not is also part of that contract. There is the element as well of codes being exchanged and these codes are the equivalent of the agreement that you had with that being to have that encounter and learn what it is you were wanting to learn from that being or from that version of yourself before having come into this incarnation.
No one will ever complete you. They can’t because you are already complete. There are beings here who will challenge you into learning what you came here to learn on a more intense level than those who are simply passerbys in your life. There are beings who will break your heart but it is because of how much they love you on the level in which you have created that contract. And there are those who will show you that you are human and others that will show you that you are god. We are of the idea that it is worth your while while you are here to experiment with truly loving one another for once you come back to oneness and creation and The All it is not exactly the same.
Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Kate, do you have a question?
Q05: Yes, I am just wondering with that conversation what then is the concept of the twin flames all about?
V: Well as you said it is a concept. It is a methodology of understanding. A observation that many have had..or many have of a particularly intense relationship..a particularly intense contract between two beings that pushes them in a particularly specific direction of growth on a spiritual level. There are many of you who have these types of relationships and so have labeled them twin flames so as to be able to have conversations about them. There is no significance to any label that a person can give to any phenomena beyond the ability to then talk about it in shorthand with others who have a similar experience.
The twin flame relationship is a relationship that is or seems to be more intense than a regular or relationship that has not been labeled twinflame. However, it is no more significant than any other relationship that one may have for all of your relationships are here..all of your interactions are here..to teach you something or other that you have chosen to learn in this lifetime and it is the romantic and poetic descriptions added on to the twin flame relationship that makes it such an attractive relationship for those of you who would like to remain poetic and romantic as you move towards your understanding of interaction. We are not diminishing the relationship itself by any means. A powerful relationship is always a powerful relationship but one who does not know of the twin flame term and has not labeled their relationship as such does not make whatever powerful relationships they are in any less significant because of it. There are no rules. The information that one finds on these topics at times is intuited..at times is from personal experience. However, there are many rules and regulations and suggestions on that particular topic that are absolutely useless for if one were to address their current experience directly and ask themselves what are they trying to learn from the intense or at times complicated nature of a relationship that gets labeled as twin flame then they would have much more success in dissecting the specific information that is meant for them from them and from the relationship or at times lack thereof. Then they would do to look up terms and concepts on this topic and ask experts for advice on this topic and how to reunite with their twin flame. It is a distraction both from the relationship itself which deserves more honor than it is often given and from one's own journey towards an understanding of self and other. Does this help to clarify?
Q: Yes, it does. Thank you so much.
V: Thank you.
Host to group: Are their any further questions? If so, please type a message in the chat.
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Host to group: Karissa, would you unmute yourself and ask your question please?
Q: Hey!
V: Hello.
Q06: So the book that is being written and added to..new content that is being added to what has already been said..I’m curious and I think we are all excited to hear what the intention isn’t the right word..but what is..I guess what is the intention behind writing it?
V: It is two-fold. We would like to be able to compile some of the information that we have shared with you so far into a more digestible format perhaps more organized by category and functionality within one’s life. For this we are preparing a framework to which divide the topics and concepts that we have covered for easy reference. The secondary scope of this particular work is to highlight the new form of relationship that is being made available to you as humans on this planet at this time with beings that are non physical through the act of allowing this type of relationship to occur. This is why we are asking the vessel to write much of the book from her perspective in showing her experience and in form story of how this relationship came to be and will continue to be. There will be people who are reading this work and choosing upon the end of it to allow their own communication to begin with higher levels of consciousness which will guide them to a place of understanding self in a way so as to be able to be one’s self and as we said last week be what they came here to be.
Up until now most channeled work has been delivered in a very formal format with the information being treated as sterile. We have noticed during our sessions with you that there is still some form of discomfort when talking with us. We understand that it is much in part to the delivery of the words and the lack of inflection and the lack of eye contact but there is still a stigma even amongst those of you who are open minded..which you all are, and we thank you..to be talking to something that they see as outside of or higher than their own state of consciousness and we would like to bring this information or this knowing that we are not outside of you..that we are not higher than to your consciousness so as to in part relax you into an understanding that all is possible and all is available and all is on its way. The title is The First Contact for this is the first contact you will have. You will not be expecting..or should not be expecting..or can expect if you would like to for you are the creators of your reality..spaceships to land in your front yard. Those of you who are open and willing will not have such a sudden shock. You will have your contact. You will understand what is about to happen before it happens and you will be prepared to be the ground team for that reality if and when you choose for it to be your reality. There will be those..if you choose for there to be..who are not prepared..who go into a state of shock that only you having prepared yourself in this way can help them out of. The propensity towards separation is still so strong in your primal psyche that there will be those of you who..even though it is a ridiculous concept..believe that the response to what you would call an alien encounter would be war. It’s ridiculous obviously as if a spaceship were to land it has come from somewhere very far away and your military would not be able to handle it.
Q: Okay, I have a second question.
V: Yes.
Q07: The first part is I have recognized that I began to have discomfort on the sessions together. I noticed my body changing and not breathing as much and I am curious what’s underneath that...what belief I’m holding basically..ultimately..that I think something is lacking and secondly..which is related..I feel that the..in a sense the deeper I go within or in my heart I am more also connecting to primal fear more frequently and I’m curious if you can share anything on that with me.
V: Well we cannot understand what could be lacking but we will say that you connecting with your primal fear is a good thing for as you look at it..it can be released, felt, and if you choose let go of. It exists within all of you. It is natural. It is part of your biological makeup and it is keeping you far smaller than you could be otherwise. There’s nothing wrong with being afraid. So you can allow that. You can feel it. You can investigate what it’s telling you and nothing bad will happen to you by doing so. As we said earlier..an animal..when they are afraid they run because they are not holding in that fear. They are not repressing it. They are simply allowing it to be and move them in the way that they feel is necessary. As a human you can feel fear and allow it to move you or you can feel fear..decide that you don’t want to run away in that moment and just sit with the fear or you can choose to ignore it and repress it and hide it. But it is asking you to look at something. What could be lacking?
Q: Is that a rhetorical question?
V: It is both.
Q: Yes. I think I connect to feelings of unworthiness and yes.. fear of saying something wrong and then a negative backlash like.. like hurting me basically.. Yeah.. unworthiness feels like it. Does that make sense?
V: It does. We wonder what feeling unworthy is providing you with.
Q: Yeah I also wonder and is there anything else besides it provides me with a journey..a process..being able to experience being human and the idea that I am separate? Is there anything else I’m not seeing besides that?
V: Well, if you’re not worthy of who you are then you don’t have to be who you are.
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V: It’s like. You go for lunch with a friend and they present you with a small box wrapped up..beautiful wrapping.. and you open it and they’ve given you a bracelet. You honestly didn’t think it was this close of a friend. And you say, “Oh no, no, no I could never accept this.” And so you don’t. And they take the bracelet and they put it back in the box and off they go and you don’t have a bracelet because you could never accept it. And if that gift is you wrapped up in the box in the bow and the universe continues to sit with you at lunch and present you with this gift and you continue to say, “Oh no, no I could never accept that!” That’s far too much. Well then they will take it and off they go. Luckily the universe will see you at dinner and breakfast and lunch and dinner and breakfast and lunch for the rest of your life. And they will keep giving you the beautiful box and your head wrapped with a bow and they will continue patiently to wait for you to accept.
What is going to happen to you if you accept the gift that the universe is trying to give you?
Q: The first thing that comes to mind is that I will basically cease to exist..like the idea that I might bliss out and cease journey.**laughter** I don’t know..that’s what comes up.
V: Well then you are enjoying the journey and that is absolutely fine but perhaps that too is you wrapped with a bow. Accepting one’s self means accepting one’s self. It doesn’t mean suddenly having to do something different or be something different. Maybe you are placing too much importance on what will change if you are worthy. Perhaps nothing changes at all except that you no longer feel fear..you no longer feel unworthiness..you are suddenly comfortable being exactly who you are and doing exactly what you are doing anyway everyday but these burdens..these doubts are simply gone. And you still laugh with your friends..and you still dance but you don’t judge yourself for it. You don’t worry about it. We know you are worthy. You couldn’t be here if you weren’t. There’s a really big bouncer at the door.
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Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you. If there is one more short question we will take that now.
Host to group: Are there are any questions from the group? If someone has one.
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Host to V: That’s all the questions there is today. Thank you.
V: Wonderful. We will be with you always. We encourage a practice of deep listening in your meditation. Not for words..not for sounds..but for the humming between words and sounds..the humming between thought. That humming is the matter..the fabric of what you call reality. And if you can pinpoint it in your times of quiet..in your times of pause and silence it becomes like the wind in a sail and it can bring you to a complete understanding of All That Is. We anticipate much reflection on your part in the coming weeks as will be on our part and wish you the most creative and beneficial intentions to be inspired into your hearts. With the light and the love of All That Is That You Are for now we say fare well.
Host: Thank you.
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